Friday, October 13, 2017

It was a perfect illusion


          Here's the thing about love, it is hard to put into words. Love brings up emotions that run the game from agony to ecstasy. Love can inspire us to accomplish some of the craziest and most amazing feats. Love can make you happier than you've ever been, sadder than you've ever been, angrier than you've ever been. It can elate you and deflate you almost at the same time.  While we can all pretty much recognize the emotions associated with love, actually finding the words to explain those feelings is a pretty tough order. People have searched for centuries to find the right way to say "I love you" and to try to explain those butterflies in your stomach, that warm fuzzy feeling in your belly and that heart skipping a beat. One thing we know is that whether you've love and won or loved and lost, it's always worth it. Here is a story of a guy who fell in love with girl who never loved him back.
          Once, there was this guy who was in love with a girl. She wasn’t the most beautiful and gorgeous but for him, she was everything. He used to dream about her, about spending the rest of life with her. His friends told him, “Why do you dream so much about her, when you don’t even know if she loves you or not?  First tell her your feelings, and get to know if she likes you or not." He felt that was the right way. The girl knew from the beginning that this guy loves her. One day when he proposed, she rejected him. His friends thought he would take alcohol, drugs and ruin his life. To their surprise, he was not depressed. When they asked him how was it that he is not sad,  he replied, "Why should I feel bad? I lost one who never loved me and she lost the one who really loved and cared for her."
          True love is hard to get. Love is all about giving to other person without greed of gaining anything in return. If other person rejects it, its him or her who will be losing the most important thing in life. So never feel rejected. The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather loved in spite of ourselves. In order for oneself to be happy, it is necessary to make at least one other person happy. But it's a very dangerous state. You are inclined to wrecklessness and kind of tune out the rest of your life and everything that's been important to you. It's actually not all that pleasurable. I don't know who the hell wants to get in a situation where you can't bear an hour without somebody's company. Be in the state that if somebody loves you then love him or her back. If he or she don't, then leave. It is not a loss if it is wasn't worth keeping.

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